Can Cats Get Jealous?
Pet parents from all over the world caring for feline creatures tend to give their cats human-like traits. In other words, we have a tendency of anthropomorphizing our beloved feline furballs.
We say that cats love us, that they can understand us and that they have human-like emotions. So it comes only natural to ask ourselves – can cats get jealous just like us, human beings? Truth be told, jealousy isn’t the only emotion that cats can feel.
Yes, cats can get jealous.
The jealousy of a feline furball resembles the exact emotion, which we can experience. It can be often triggered by the feeling of being territorial towards the kitty’s living area and its pet parent. Felines can easily get jealous of cats, dogs and other animals residing near them. They can also get jealous if their owners are being more attentive to their daily tasks or to a house guest.
Not all kitties out there can or will experience this emotion. Some breeds are quite laid-back, easy-going and tolerant of strangers. They won’t mind sharing their owners’ attention with other pets or people.
Such notorious breeds are the Pixie Bob and the Maine Coon. Of course, each cat out there is unique on its own. As a result, even a specimen of a notably tolerant feline breed can show excessive jealousy.
Feline jealousy depends on the cat’s personality and temper, as well as on its upbringing, level of socialization and overall interaction with its pet parent.
Why do cats get jealous?
Some feline furballs are simply made that way. For example, one particularly jealous cat breed is the Oriental Shorthair. These furballs adore being the center of attention and they’ll do anything to achieve that. They aren’t happy when their owners are being more attentive to other humans, animals or even inanimate objects while carrying out their daily tasks.
In most cases jealousy in cats is triggered by the way their pet parents are acting around them. There are several basic reasons behind your kitty’s jealous feelings.
If your beloved furball isn’t convinced in your unconditional love and devotion towards it, it will most likely get jealous for seemingly no reason at all. Insecurity usually comes after the cat has experienced a heartbreaking moment, a parting with its previous owner or a similar unpleasant memory. The kitty feels unconvinced in the fact that it deserves your affection.
Lack of proper socialization
Cats, which lack enough socialization with other animals or humans, easily experience jealousy. When faced with a social encounter, they start acting out improperly.
Lack of enough bonding time
We all have assignments to carry out on daily basis. Whether it’s studying, working, watching TV or doing house chores, we still have daily tasks. It comes only natural that you can’t engage in training sessions or play time with the kitty 24/7. But when the cat feels like it’s not getting enough bonding time with its owner, it becomes a problem.
What happens when cats get jealous?
Feline jealousy isn’t much different from human jealousy. Each cat is unique on its own just like we, human beings are. And thus, your kitty’s personality is the thing that defines how it will react when it’s feeling jealous.
You’ll spot behavioral changes, which will indicate that something’s wrong with your cat. Your fluffy pet won’t act out each time it gets jealous, but when it does, you’ll definitely notice it.
Aggressive behavior, such as hissing, scratching, biting and attacking you or the other person/ animal/ inanimate object, which triggered the jealousy, is common for all breeds. The cat can also pee on the carpet or try to scratch the furniture. Basically, your furball will try to get revenge for the way it’s feeling. And that means attacking whatever it wants and whatever it thinks will make a clear point.
The kitty may start acting out lethargic, shy and depressed. This type of behavior is triggered from the insecurity it’s experiencing. The jealous cat will believe that it’s not good enough to get sufficient attention.
A common type of jealous behavior is the fawning. Purring, rubbing against you, pleading with excessive meowing and so forth are the typical signs of fawning. This is basically your cat’s way of obtaining your attention.
If you encourage the cat by giving it what it wants, attending to its needs, teasing it on purpose, playing with it, laughing at it or purposely not showing it attention when the jealous behavior seems amusing, your actions will only worsen the situation.
If you can’t devote your time to attending to your kitty’s needs, think twice before adopting a cat. You can also opt for a more independent and laid-back breed. Another option is to stock up on interactive cat toys to keep the kitty entertained and exercised. Nevertheless, every cat out there needs love and attention, so don’t neglect your furball’s needs.